Humbly i Submit
Humbly i Submit has come into existence over the past few years as a culmination of experiences and lessons learned from over a decade of marriage.
Why a lower case ‘i’ ?
Often people ask why there is a lower case ‘i’ in the name. Excellent question! No its not a mistake and its not a typo. Lessons in submission have shown me that in marriage you cannot place yourself as the star of the show. You have to decrease so that the union and marriage can increase.
In marriage, we have to see the bigger picture. We have to learn to think about more than ourselves. Your husband needs your submission just as much as you need his leadership. When that happens, the two of you together can create the perfect storm.
Together you can conquer the world. Its what makes everything right in the world. This togetherness is what makes all the pieces fall into place. Its what gives purpose and belonging. All of a sudden all questions are answered. All i’s are dotted and all t’s are crossed. You cannot succeed together when you are fighting and struggling against each other.
It is very difficult to have a harmonious household when there is a power struggle between the main players that should be working together. I can tell you from experience there is no fulfilment in degrees, jobs, houses, cars, or success if you are not operating in the way you were designed. It will be like trying to use a cactus as a toothbrush. I mean you can do it, but its just not right.
Submission is a gift
Submission is a gift. The more you give the more you get in return. It unlocks the true you. It lets you experience a joy and freedom that would otherwise remain hidden under a facade trying to be what society tells you to be. Submission teaches you so much about yourself. It also teaches humility, respect, honor, sacrifice, and selflessness.
Humbly i Submit is a movement to teach wives how to submit to their husband. Thus, we hope that more wives will embrace their position and being to enjoy life, love and marriage.